Find YOUR People - Online Course

Find YOUR People is a self-guided online course designed to help make deep and meaningful friends as an adult.

Gain the confidence to walk up to a stranger, strike up a conversation and connect with them instantly.
Stop “overthinking” and get out of your head. Learn the social skills to avoid awkward silences, get beyond small talk and have meaningful conversations.
Attract people that just “get you” and create a strong circle of friends that inspire you, have your back and aren’t afraid to challenge you.
Feel seen, heard and valued - and a deeper sense of belonging.

“Through this program, I realized that yes I do have “my” people around me – I just need to do the work as all relationships require effort. So no I am putting energy and love into the connections that are helping me be a better version of myself.”

AMY ANGELILLI

“I learned how to let go of the friendships that didn’t serve me anymore. Without this course I would continue to struggle in my relationships and feel exhausted with my limited energy and time as an introvert.“

ASANDA CHEUNG

“This course gave me a framework to better find my people AND then communicate with them in a productive way. I recommend it to whose feeling isolated and willing to do the inner and outer work needed to find their community.“

KEVIN SINGH

“Jan’s nickname is Mr. Connect for a reason… he is kind, empathetic, and passionate about bringing the best out of everyone who crosses his path. His techniques and exercises blew my expectations out of the water.”

TED KILLIN

Making REAL friends
as adults seems hard

When I first arrived in Toronto in 2008 I only knew one person!

And little did I expect back then that over the next few years I will make Toronto my new home.

I think anybody who has moved to a new place knows that meeting new people and making REAL friendships is not easy.

At one point I literally thought something must be wrong with me!

I kept blaming it on:

Maybe I’m just too old to make friends (yet I was in my early 20ies)
Canadians are just nice on the surface – they don’t want to make new friends (turns out they craved connection as much as I did)
I work from home – so I don’t socialize enough (I was not the only one)

So I started joining groups, meetups, networking events and at one point I was attending events every single day of the week – and I just walked away with a stack of business cards and NO REAL CONNECTIONS.

DOES THIS SOUND LIKE YOU?

“I don’t know where to meet like-minded people”
“When I talk to people, I can’t seem to get beyond meaningless small talk”
“Even if I meet someone, I don’t know how to turn this acquaintance into a friend”
“I often feel isolated, disconnected and alone – even though I am surrounded by people”
“My friends just don’t get me. I feel like I have to change who I am to fit in”

THEN IT'S TIME TO FIND YOUR PEOPLE

It took me 8 years to figure out the secret to creating deep, meaningful relationships and now want to support anyone who is struggling with the same challenge.

Now I can say that I have found “my people” – an amazing community of people that I can be completely myself around. Friends that support me, that don’t judge me, that just “get me” and make me feel energized and fulfilled when I am around them.

And for the last few years I’ve been hosting hundreds of dinners, workshops and other experiences to help people get beyond small talk, connect meaningfully and make new friends since then.

And now I put all my lessons and strategies into this online course, so you don’t have to wait 8 years like I did.

Jan Keck

CONNECTION COACH
AND CREATOR OF ASK DEEP QUESTIONS

MY WORK HAS RECENTLY BEEN FEATURED ON

Photo by Armosa Studios

HOW DOES IT WORK?

I am excited to share the powerful strategies that have worked for me in attracting the RIGHT people to me and how to build trust and strong connections.

At the end of this program, you will not only walk away with some amazing strategies to meet new people but also the tools to connect with them deeply and turn new acquaintances into friends.

VIDEO LESSONS

You’ll get complete access to 8 chapters and over 30 engaging video lessons and exercises which you can watch on your own time.

EXTENSIVE WORKBOOK

Keep track of your progress and all the exercises with your own printable workbook. It also includes a summary of each chapter.

DEEP CONNECTOR COMMUNITY

An exclusive group where you’ll receive ongoing support directly from me and where you can connect with other program participants.

ENROLL NOW

WHAT WE WILL COVER

#1 - GOALS AND INTENTIONS

The first step to finding people like yourself is to get clear on where you are at and where you wanna go

#2 - CURATE YOUR CREW

You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so it’s time to evaluate your core relationships and choose where to spend your energy.

#3 - YOUR VIBE ATTRACTS YOUR TRIBE

Learn how to attract the people that just “get” you into your life

#4 - WHERE ARE YOUR PEOPLE

Engineer synchronicities by putting yourself in the right places with the right people so you literally run into your next BFFS.

#5 - MAKE FRIENDS, NOT CONTACTS

Even if it’s scary and awkward – you’ll have to learn how to talk to strangers if you want to connect.

#6 - GET BEYOND SMALL TALK

Even small talk can be meaningful if you know how to ask the right questions and lead with the right amount of vulnerability.

#7 - THINK LIKE A COMMUNITY BUILDER

The best way to build a community is by creating meaningful experiences for people, like intimate gatherings.

#8 - BUILD LONG-TERM FRIENDSHIPS

Learn how to stay in touch to help your connections flourish without flaking out.

PLUS YOU'LL GET THESE AMAZING BONUSES

ASK DEEP QUESTIONS (PDF)

Join hundreds of DEEP CONNECTORS who are not afraid to have conversations that matter with these 48 thoughtful questions that go below the surface to create meaningful connections.

Once you join the program you will get a digital download of the Original Deck, so you can facilitate deep conversations with your new friends .

DEEP DINNER PLAYBOOK (PDF)

I believe that strangers are just friends we haven’t met yet, so what better way to connect with strangers and friends than by inviting them for an intimate dinner? I put together my Deep Dinner Playbook to make your next dinner a memorable experience that your guests will rave about for months.

So, who is this for?

If you have just moved to a new city or country and don't know anyone or don't know where to meet new people
If you're an expat or immigrant who even after living in the same place for a while still hasn't found a circle of close friends
If you sometimes feel disconnected, isolated and lonely even though you're surrounded by people
If you feel your existing friendships are too shallow and you want to deepen them, but don't know how to
If you're looking to build your professional and personal network without doing small talk at networking events
If you want to make REAL friends that support you, reach out to you and believe in you
If you're introverted or shy and don't have the courage to talk to strangers (yet)
If you crave more meaningful conversations in your life

ASANDA CHEUNG

KEVIN SINGH

TED KILLIN

AMY ANGELILLI

MY MISSION

My mission is to empower people who feel disconnected with the tools to start meaningful conversations. Whether through my unique ASK DEEP QUESTIONS cards or facilitating experiences at retreats, conferences and events, my goal is to create a more connected world.

Let’s cure loneliness together, so we can all have a place we feel like we belong.

ENROLL NOW

“Every conversation is an opportunity to be vulnerable,
reveal the real you and experience true belonging."

SELF GUIDED COURSE

You’ll get access to the complete course and you can go through the content on your own time.

✅ Over 30 Video Lessons
✅ Extensive Workbook
✅ Private Facebook Community
✅ BONUS: Ask Deep Questions Cards (PDF)
✅ BONUS: Deep Dinner Playbook (PDF)

ENROLL NOW FOR $147 USD

7 DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE

You have to take enough risks in life, this shouldn’t be one of them. Try this out for 7 days on me and if you aren’t happy just send me an email and I’ll refund your entire purchase – no questions asked.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

WHAT WILL THE PROGRAM DEMAND OF ME?
For the self-guided online course I suggest to dedicate 1 hour per week for 6 -8 weeks to watch the content, do the exercises in the workbook and then go and apply the lessons at social events.
In total there are over 30 videos adding up to about 2.5 hours of video content, so although I wouldn’t recommend it, you could easily binge-watch it in an afternoon.
For the group coaching program I would add an additional 2 hours for the weekly call and an additional hour to complete your challenges every week.
HOW WILL I ACCESS THE CONTENT?
Most of the content will be delivered through “Thinkific” (the online course platform) and allows you to watch the videos on your laptop or mobile device on your own time.
The coaching calls happen via zoom.us video conference calls and then shared in the private Facebook group for each cohort.
DO YOU HAVE A PAYMENT PLAN?
No, we currently don’t offer a payment plan. I believe that only if you are committed to the course from the beginning you will actually execute on the lessons and content and get results.
IS THERE A GUARANTEE?
For the self-guided online course we have a 7-day-no-questions-asked money back guarantee. Simply message me for a refund.
For the group coaching program there is a detailed screening process to make sure it’s the right fit for you. Therefore once you decide to join the program, there are no refunds.
To make sure you get the most value from this program I am making a pledge to you that I will spend extra time if necessary to make sure you are getting results from this program. You will get out of the program as much as you put in the effort.